6. What's in it for me?

Friendship . . . love . . . a new dress . . . going to a big party . . . what more do you want? Beyond that, you'll get to participate in what will probably be one of the highlights of your friend's life. You'll be included in numerous photos and will always be one of those special people to her, like an old college roommate or a childhood friend. In terms of tangible goods you will accumulate a dress; shoes; possible debt; and probably will be treated to a bridesmaid party/luncheon and given a special gift.